“These streets are snatching our babies right out of our arms.”
Blues used to joke half-heartedly that I go to funerals once a month. In the six years we have lived together, I have experienced my share of losses of family friends and acquaintances. Though I haven’t attended every funeral, I have taken part in viewings, vigils, memorial services, and celebrations of life. My November ancestor altar grows every year. Still, some of those events are more difficult than others. Perhaps I had a closer relationship with the deceased. Or maybe the loss is an unjust tragedy, in the case of my colleague’s son who was killed this past week.
I remember the little boy with a bright smile, when he was my M’s age, ever present at this father’s side at school sporting events. I remember him carrying a backpack that seemed to be twice as his size as his burly football coach dad walked him to the neighboring elementary school before classes began on our campus. Until last night’s funeral, I had no idea he was my colleague’s stepson. Their bond was beautiful to behold.
In the weeks, months, and years to come, the news media will tell the story of this young man’s death. There will be details and revelations. The family will not only experience their terrible loss as a private family matter but also as a public one before the criminal justice system and the media. I pray for their strength, love, and integrity as a family to carry them through this tragedy. I pray for our communities that we may be willing to do the hard work to truly nurture our youth. I pray for all young people to be touched by the spirit of hope and peace.
Live in glory, Kris.